Money and Love
This topic right here be wearing me out! Money. What is it about this green paper. Money and Love both have roots. Where have you planted your seeds? People who have money are looking for love and people who have love are looking for money. Woo child…is there really a happy medium? There are those who appear to have a little of both but according to the divorce rate they are mere gymnast walking a tightrope with a beam. God forbids someone gets sick or lose their jobs the relationship is often tried. Can you really find true love and what is a nice balance? Is it fair to ask your fiancé for a pre nuptial agreement on his or her wealth? Can the other partner ask that a cap be placed on how much love
the other receives? (Of course,for the sake of this blog I’m going to go along with all view points:) Because I don’t know the truth. What is “love.” What is “money”? The more I write about this topic the more the web appears to be tangled.
What is Love
I think first let’s define what love is.
Yes, it is important to determine both parties definition of love. Love for one person is totally different to the other. Two people can be romantically and intellectually compatible, but define love in different ways. For example, my definition of love is, “The genuine and unconditional concern for the well being of the other person by my actions regardless of the circumstances.” In other words it is unconditional not mere talk. It sounds good right;) When people are called to make tuff financial decisions you see that there definition of love has a very different meaning unbeknownst to the other party. Most people will not admit during favorable times that they do have conditions on their love and that condition is their money!!! Yep, nobody is trying to go broke in search of trying to fulfill an emotional need. An emotion that can’t pay bills, can’t buy groceries and can’t fulfill the unique purpose in ones life. Remember, for this blog, I’m agreeing with all view points:) Then there are those people who don’t have much of anything, yes very few monetary resources and fall deeply in love and stay in love. There are those who seek love to replace the fact there is no money. After all it takes money to make money and love cost us nothing. What I’m trying to figure out is which one has the greater weight or value. I’ve seen some relationships go south when it comes to that change. I’m just keeping it real.
The bible says in Galatians 6:2 “to practice carrying each others burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.” In today’s society with everyone being so independent it is rare that we have to carry one another’s burdens and when we have to do so in our relationships it poses extreme concerns. So, we have a few suggestions you can practice while trying to test the boundaries of love. It will probably be fun to make up your own suggestions too. In the event you have to make adjustment you have already participated in a test run.
Pretend to live off one person’s salary for a limited time.
Compromise your say in financial decision for 3-6 months.
Practice catering to the other person every need for 3-6 months.
These topics may appear to be light but they can have an impact on business decisions later on down the line.
We know that love is the greatest power on this earth. We also know the battle of Love and Money has existed since ancient times. We have successful couples that we will podcast with soon to share some pointers and tip on how they balance the two.
Remember there is a thin line between love and hate. Hopefully, you won’t find out the hard way.